You sexual fantasy or desire always stay with you and it keeps playing with your emotions. Sometime you sexual desire might not be one of the common fantasies and in that case people might consider your sexual desire as a cheap taboo. Well, you cannot control what other people thing about you, but you need to understand that a fantasy is just a fantasy and there is nothing wrong with you. If you have a fantasy or sexual desire that is not common, then it does not mean you are a cheap person or you have a croup mind. It just means you are not like other cheap people and you chose to live your life according to your own terms and condition.
You different fantasies proves that you have guts to stand out from the crowd and you can live your life in a much better and different manner. Also, in this situation, you don’t have to prove anything to anyone, nor you need to convince them that your sexual fantasy or desire is not a cheap thing. In this situation ,you just need to convince yourself that whatever fantasies you have in deep of your heart, that are not cheap and you have no reason to change your mind for same. When you will have this confidence, then you will not have any reason to worry about the depression or negative feelings that you can get because of cheap opinion made by other people for your or your fantasies.
In addition to this you also need to make sure that you stay firm with your sexual desire or fantasy and if someone claim its cheap thought, then also you do not change your opinion until you feel it that way. And when you make your opinion about sexual fantasy or desire, then it is a good idea that you make an opinion with neutral mind. That means you do not think about your fantasies as a believer or hater. Instead of that you need to be a candid reviewer and in that situation you can have the right kind of opinion for same. This will make sure you get what you expect from your life and that will help you have better fun in your life.
Along with other things, you also need to keep this thing in your mind that your sexual desire or fantasies do not hurt a person at physical level. If you have this kind of fantasies in your mind that involve serious hurting to other people, then I would also suggest you to change your mind. In that situation, I might call it cheap and I would urge you to review it again and again and if needed, you can take the help of some expert as well. But in last I would again say that if crowd is making cheap opinion about your sexual desire, then don’t trust on those cheap opinions and keep believing what you believe. And if you think something is not good, then you can change your opinion for same and you can have other sexual desire in your life.